English-Speaking Coaching & Therapy in Berlin and Online
Julia Gohlke | Systemic Therapist & Family Counselor (DGSF) | Non-Medical Practitioner of Psychotherapy
Welcome, I’m glad you’re here. I’m Julia.
Sometimes life presents us with challenges that feel almost too heavy to carry alone. Losses, deep emotional shocks, or unprocessed trauma can make you feel like you are losing your footing.
As an experienced guide, I am here in my practice to help you give these difficult experiences a safe space. Together, we will help soothe your nervous system, process crises, and gently find your way back to your vitality. You don’t have to walk this path alone—I will accompany you with both professional expertise and human warmth.
Main Focus of My Therapeutic Work
Grief Counseling
Grief is not a problem to be fixed—it is the love you still carry. In my practice, you don’t need to “let go” or rush to return to “normal.”
We gently explore how to maintain an inner connection to your loved one. You can learn to live alongside your grief—at your own pace, without judgment, and without leaving them behind.
Trauma Therapy
Sometimes, painful experiences or shock leave lasting marks that make it hard to feel at peace. Trauma therapy offers a safe way to untangle these old knots.
Together, we help your system process what happened, release the burden, and rediscover a sense of calm and wholeness within yourself.
Transformational Coaching
When goals are clear in your mind but simply refuse to work out in everyday life, the root cause often runs deeper.
In coaching, we resolve unconscious blocks, question old behavioral patterns, and bring your daily practice back into alignment with your true needs—for more ease and a life that feels authentic to you.
Client Experiences
“Her calm, empathetic nature and her ability to truly listen and address everything without any rush is something very special. You immediately feel that she understands the pain and can provide individual support using a vast repertoire of tools. After every session with Julia, I felt a great sense of relief. Over the weeks and months, a quiet, deeper resolution of the issue unfolded in the background.”
“About three months after Enno’s death, I was looking for understanding and help, and I found Julia. At first, I only observed her work on Instagram, until I finally gathered the courage to reach out to her. I have been working with Julia for over a year now because she simply does me good, and I deeply appreciate her guidance following the death of my son Enno. Again and again, she gives me a feeling of strength right where I feel my weakest.”
“I have been in regular coaching with Julia for almost 2 years, because my daughter passed away 2.5 years ago. In every session, I can completely let go with all my feelings and thoughts. Every session adapts precisely to my needs and always moves me a little further along my path of grief and trauma. Julia’s work is therefore incredibly effective, and I have even recommended her privately to others.”
“What I particularly appreciate about working together is how Julia helps me structure my thoughts. In general, I feel completely at ease with Julia. I can just be who I am. If an exercise or method doesn’t work for me, Julia adapts it completely effortlessly until it resonates with me. I am amazed at how far I can open up and how free and safe I feel during our online sessions.”
“Julia has a unique ability to explain complex topics clearly and offer practical solutions. Her recommendation of a specific article helped me gain important insights that I now incorporate into my life. A special memory from our coaching is a technique Julia showed me to stay calm in stressful situations. I now use this technique regularly, and it has made my life immensely easier.”
“I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping me keep going, seeing a purpose in life again, and coping with the grief over our son.
The waves of grief were simply far too high, everything felt foreign, and I felt like I no longer knew myself.
I felt so lost because no one understood me.
But you listened to me, caught me when I was falling, and showed me that it’s okay to feel just the way I do right now.”
Methods & Approaches
- Systemic Psychotherapy
- Couples and Family Therapy
- Hypnosystemic Grief Counseling
- Tension & Trauma Releasing Exercises (TRE)
- Psychodynamic Imaginative Trauma Therapy
- EMDR
- EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing)
- Emotion Aid
- Systemic Family and Trauma Constellation
Areas of Focus / Topics
- Crises and Conflicts
- Fertility Coaching
- Inner Child Healing
- Health Coaching
- Birth Trauma Processing
- Loss and Grief
- Overwhelming Feelings
- Anxiety and Panic (Panic Attacks)
- Stress and Trauma
„Trauma creates change you don’t choose.
Michelle Rosenthal
Healing is about creating change you do choose.“